I've been working out several times a week for a couple months. I can feel my strength increasing. Problem is, that strength is trapped beneath inches of insulating fat.
I realize that exercise without a change in diet is going to be marginally effective. Worse, exercise while continuing to shovel high calorie, high fat, fried, salty, disgusting food into my maw is like arranging deck chairs on the Titanic. But I'm not a dieter.
I don't count calories. I don't calculate the weight of what I'm eating. I don't have the time or interest in scrutinizing every meal in-depth for its nutritional impact. What's worked for me in the past, and what I'm going to institute again, are a set of rules or heuristics that govern my eating. I can follow discrete, simple, easy rules. So, here we go:
1) No deep fried. This is a biggie, as it eliminates a ton of really shitty restaurant foods. Exclusions are anything I cook at home. Since I don't have a deep fryer, that's not as big an exclusion as it may first seem.
2) No drive throughs. Drive throughs exist at the worst places to eat, and drive throughs indicate a mad dash to eat. I find that mad dashes to eat mean I'll convince myself that I'm in so much of a hurry, I can't be bothered to watch what I eat.
3) No eating after 10PM. This should probably move to 8 or 9PM, but I stay up until midnight or later on a normal night, so that's at least 3 hours before bedtime.
4) 3 meals and 1 snack a day, minimum. No skipping breakfast or lunch (and gorging later on).
5) No restaurant desserts. We're moving into the holiday season, and cutting all dessert will just create a rule I'm not willing to keep always, but I can cut out restaurant sweets of all kinds. This includes a donut on the way in to work - Dunkin' Donuts is a restaurant, and a donut is a dessert.
6) Snack on cheese, nuts, and fruits. Don't snack on chips, candy, or cookies.
That should be a good start.